What The Heck Is EFT & How Can It Help Me?

Good Afternoon everyone! I have been away for a bit and now I am eager to jump back into the swing of things. If you have been following for some time, you know I love to share info that will help and inspire you to look at things a new and/or different way. To open your mind to try things differently and for some, the first time.

I am not sure if you have heard of EFT, which stands for Emotional Freedom Techniques, I am sure some of you have but are not sure what it is and how it can help you to take control of your life and the situations in it.

So read on and be sure to let me know what you think of this technique and if/how it has transformed your life.......

...Peace...

What The Heck Is EFT & How Can It Help Me?

EFT stands for "Emotional Freedom Techniques" and is one of a developing suite of "Meridian Based Therapies" now available. They are simple, powerful methods of healing many physical and emotional issues. They can help release Phobias, anxieties, addictions, anger, trauma and limiting beliefs.

EFT has been described as "acupuncture without needles" and uses the same energy meridians that have been used in traditional Chinese acupuncture for 5,000 years. Instead of needles, gentle tapping on specific meridian points is used to move healing vibrational energy through your meridians while you think about your specific problem. The basic tapping points are pictured on the drawing above.

 

For many emotional issues, the negative feeling you are having is caused by a conditioned disruption in one or more of your meridians. Any stimulus which reminds you of a past trauma recreates the disruption in the present and leads to the negative feeling. The combination of tapping the meridian points while holding the negative thought in mind neutralizes the disruption in your merdians and subtle energy system, dissipating the negative feeling. You will still have the memory of the event but will no longer feel the negative emotion when you think of it.

  More complex issues are handled by tapping on each aspect of the original trauma one at a time, systematically, until the negative "charge" of the whole experience melts away. The energies that had been wrapped up in these memories (or repressing them) are then freed up to be channeled into more positive pursuits.

 EFT in a Nutshell

 First, rate the intensity of your problem (your "SUDS" level - Subjective Units of Distress) on a scale of 0-10, with 10 being worst. Then tap the Karate Chop point or rub the Sore Spot while saying a "Setup Phrase" to address possible Psychological Reversal (unconscious, self-sabotaging beliefs.) See chart in the upper-left corner for all tapping points.

 The Setup Phrase should state the problem to be addressed along with an affirmation, for example: "Even though I have this chocolate craving, I deeply and completely accept myself." Repeat this Setup phrase 3 times, then move to the tapping points and tap about 6 times at each spot while stating a reminder phrase of the problem (i.e. "This chocolate craving.") Tap all of the points while repeating this reminder phrase - this is to keep you "tuned in" to the thought-field of the problem. Rate your SUDS level again. If not a 0, repeat the EFT process, addressing all other specific aspects of the problem as needed until your SUDS level is down to a 0.

Based on impressive new discoveries regarding the body's subtle energies, EFT has been proven successful in thousands of clinical cases. It applies to just about every problem you can name and it often works where nothing else will

A Scientific/Quantum Physics Explanation of Why EFT Works
Based on the work of Alex Lees and Gloria Arenson
A thought/emotion is a collection of photons held in an electromagnetic field in our meridian system. It is a "potentiality" in our energy field and meridians, but there's no molecular movement yet or physical occupation of space in the body. The brain, which is connected with the meridians, picks up on this potentiality and converts it to a language the body can understand: the neuropeptide. Dr. Candace Pert has 15 years of research behind the following statement: "The biochemical equivalent of the emotions are the neuropeptides." The neuropeptide then causes a release of relevant chemicals into the body - i.e. stressful, negative thoughts release cortisol, adrenaline, etc. causing a negative, unpleasant feeling in the body.

While the meridians carry energy throughout the body, there are seven energy centers in the body called chakras. The concept of chakras was first developed in ancient India. Chakras act like transformers and convert subtle energies into chemical, hormonal, and cellular changes in the body. Candace Pert's research revealed that there are clusters of emotional receptor cells in the chakra areas.

EFT addresses the negative thought/emotion you are focusing on AT ITS SOURCE - in its photon/potentiality phase in the meridians. Tapping resets the subtle energy in the body's meridians and neutralizes the negativity within that particular thought field. It is no longer processed by the brain, and outside stimuli no longer triggers the thought-field. The cascade of neuropeptides and chemicals that had caused the bad feeling in our body is also no longer triggered.

 Here is a tapping script you may find useful....

This first tapping script addresses having negative thoughts....

refer to the chart above for tapping points

Fear of Negative Thoughts



(You might want to try and substitute “I’m afraid of my

negative thoughts” if that feels right)

Karate chop point: Even though I’m deeply afraid of

what might happen, I accept who I am and how I

feel…Even though I live with these fears every day, I am

willing to consider relieving them now…Even though I’m

afraid not to feel fear, I accept who I am and how I feel.

EYEBROW: I’m always afraid of what might happen

SIDE OF EYE: What if something bad happens to me?

UNDER EYE: I feel the fear in my vibration every day

NOSE: I can feel the fear no matter what I do

CHIN: I don’t feel safe unless I’m feeling worried

COLLARBONE: I’m afraid to let go of my fear

UNDER ARM: I don’t know how to feel any other way

HEAD: What if I can’t let go of my fear?

EYEBROW: I will consider letting go if my fear

SIDE OF EYE: I’m afraid to let go of my fear

UNDER EYE: I intend to be freer and lighter

NOSE: I love feeling peaceful more often

CHIN: I’m ready to let go of my fear

COLLARBONE: I love feeling grateful about my life

UNDER ARM: There is so much to feel grateful for

HEAD: I appreciate who I am and how I am living

I am also going to include a tapping script for showing gratitude; when you feel/show gratitude for what you have or are, you attract more of the same, ie...good health, abundance...love.

Karate chop point: Even though I feel a little down right

now, I choose to focus on positive emotions…Even though

I don’t feel very positive right now, I accept who I am and

how I feel…Even though I’m wallowing in self-pity right

now, I accept all of me and how I feel.

EYEBROW: I’m always afraid of what might happen

SIDE OF EYE: What if something bad happens to me?

UNDER EYE: I feel the fear in my vibration every day

NOSE: I can feel the fear no matter what I do

CHIN: I don’t feel safe unless I’m feeling worried

COLLARBONE: I’m afraid to let go of my fear

UNDER ARM: I don’t know how to feel any other way

HEAD: What if I can’t let go of my fear?

EYEBROW: I’m always afraid of what might happen

SIDE OF EYE: What if something bad happens to me?

UNDER EYE: I feel the fear in my vibration every day

NOSE: I can feel the fear no matter what I do

CHIN: I don’t feel safe unless I’m feeling worried

COLLARBONE: I’m afraid to let go of my fear

UNDER ARM: I don’t know how to feel any other way

HEAD: What if I can’t let go of my fear?

Well I hope this has given some food for thought...have a most peaceful evening......



Cognitive Distortion-Part 2

G'day....Welcome to part 2....did you get anything out of Part 1? I would love to hear about your experience after reading!

There is plenty of evidence that shows how our thoughts can create

stress in our lives; stress than can be avoided or diminished if

we learn how to control them. Thus the term Cognitive Restructuring

comes to mind. But what does this have to do with the Law of

Attraction?

The Law of Attraction is commonly linked to new age thoughts;

however, it is based on the premise that states "what we think

about the most, we become."

Therefore, if we want to attract positive outcomes, we must learn

to control our thoughts. This is how cognitive restructuring and

the Law of Attraction are linked. Does it make sense?

The internal dialogue that goes on inside our heads is constantly

interpreting, making assumptions, explaining, judging and prejudging

every situation we encounter daily and most of this goes on

unconsciously.

The way we think can help or hinder us, we can make things seem

good or bad, better or worse, black or white, threatening or

non-threatening, dangerous or safe, difficult or easy, etc. etc...

you get the idea.

Some of us tend to see common events in a more positive light,

while others tend to view things in a negative way. This thought

pattern creates blockages, obstacles and disadvantages in their

life. So what is a person to do to change these negative habitual

thought patterns?

Cognitive restructuring is a process of recognizing these patterns.

Once they are out in the open, we can challenge and change them

from cognitive distortions to empowering thought patterns. This

process is called cognitive behavioral therapy, and trained

therapists can help you with that.

However, with a commitment to change and the right information,

you can achieve great results without the need of a therapist. It

all starts with the right attitude and making a conscious effort

to implement positive self talk.

Here are a few tips that will help you restructure your thoughts

so you can activate the Law of Attraction with ease:

1. Become Aware.

Make a conscious effort to become the observer of your internal

dialogue. It may be difficult at first but with a little practice

it can be accomplished. Commit for a day, then for two, and then a

week until it becomes a habit.

2. Keep a Diary.

Jot down your feelings and experiences every day for a week. At the

end of the 7 days, read what you wrote and examine your inner

dialogue. Do you notice a negative slant in any of your comments?

It is very possible that the event that caused you to write what

you did may not look as terrible or huge anymore. Armed with your

comments on paper you'll be able to examine your inner dialogue.

3. "Stop-Cancel" Technique

The next step would be to bring the practice live by canceling or

stopping your self talk right when it happens. For example, if you

are in a meeting and a coworker that you dislike makes a comment,

you may find yourself thinking something like "here we go again,

the "know it all" is talking again."

Consciously cancel the thought by saying to yourself "cancel, cancel"

or "stop" and switch the thought to a more positive one. Remember

that these thought patters hurt you, not your coworker. If you are

having negative thoughts when you are alone, you should say the words

"stop" or "cancel" aloud for a more powerful effect and immediately

substitute the thought for a more positive one.

4. Soften Your Words

Words are very powerful and they affect us when we hear them, when

we see them and when we speak them. Avoid using words like "hate",

"anger" or "pain". Substitute them for milder words with similar

meaning. For instance, instead of saying "I hate him", say "I don't

like him", and instead of "I have this horrible pain in my leg" say

something like "The discomfort in my leg is strong."

5. Open Your Mind to Change Blocking Statements

If you ever find yourself saying something like "I just can't do

this" or "That is an impossible task", first use the "stop-cancel"

technique and then open your mind to other possibilities.

Empower yourself by thinking of possible solutions to a problem,

think of somebody that has accomplished what you're trying to, and

analyze how they did it. You may want to start with a question like

"How can I tackle this situation" to incite your mind to come up

with solutions.

You can learn to overcome your faulty thinking and negative

programming. It's just a matter of willingness, commitment,

practice and patience.

Yes, it can take time but the rewards are enormous: Cognitive

Restructuring will help you activate the Law of Attraction with

ease.

 I don't now about you, but I got a lot out of these last two posts, I found that using the 'stop/cancel' teqhnique works wondrs for me!

Cognitive Distortion: How Do You See The Events In Your Life?

G'morning Everyone! I realize posts have been far and few between; all I can do is apologize and blame it on my pain. I have to admit, if I thought more positively it would probably help wonders....this is what my post is today; how do our thoughts sabotage and/or make matters worse...Do you ever stop and realize that you had negatives thoughts and words being thrown around your brain without you even realizing it? I do, and I believe many of you do too....it's almost like an automatic coffee maker, it gets set and it does the rest all on it's own....

             WE NEED TO STOP THIS!!

Read on to acquire some skill sets to put a stop to self-sabotaging!

Dr. Aaron T. Beck came up with the definition of cognitive

distortion and cognitive therapy back in the 60's. When he was

working with depressed patients he noticed that the common

denominator were the negative thoughts and conceptions that

seemed to guide their lives.

Dr. Beck termed these cognitions "automatic thoughts" as they

seemed to appear spontaneously. He classified cognitive distortion

into three groups: negative views about the self, negative views

about the world at large and negative views about the future.

By helping patients identify their thought patterns they were able

to think more realistically which lead them to feel better, heal

emotionally and behave more functionally in their environments.

This is how cognitive therapy was born.

As a matter of fact, it is quite possible for all of us to have

negative and unrealistic views at any point in our lives even

without a mood disorder diagnosis. We tend to call this phenomena

"pessimism" in which our mind fails to be objective for a specific

period of time, especially when under stress. Fortunately, this is

short lived for most of us.

Here are the 10 common cognitive distortion states. See which one

you recognize as an "old friend." We have all experienced at least

one and more likely several of them.

The good news is that by bringing them to awareness, we can start

working on them consciously. Always remember the premise that we

are the direct result of what we think of most of the time.

1. All or Nothing.

The characteristic of this distortion is the focus on extremes. You

can recognize this form of thinking if you commonly use "always" or

"never" in your statements; for instance "I never get to go to the

movies" or "I always get yelled at." As an all-or-nothing thinker

you are seeing things bigger and uglier than they really are.

2. Jumping to Conclusions.

These people jump into conclusions before hearing the whole story

or looking at the evidence. Usually their conclusion has a negative

slant; for instance "The party will be boring and nobody will talk

to me, so I won't go" or "She's so smart and beautiful. She won't

like me, so why bother trying to talk to her."

3. Mental Filter.

As the term implies it, these individuals filter information not

based on reality. They take the positive aspects of life for

granted while amplifying the negative events. None of the scenarios

are real; such as a person that believes their whole day is ruined

because of a traffic jam without giving much thought to the

promotion he got last week.

4. Disqualifying the Positive.

For these individuals positive occurrences are just coincidences

or a result of mere luck. They never give positive events the

importance they deserve. On the contrary, a negative episode is

usually seen as something terrible and huge, much worse than it

actually is or could be; for instance "I just won a trip to

Disneyland and know my kids would be thrilled, but I hate the

long lines. I will get sore feet so I won't go."

5. Over Generalization.

These individuals base their future life experiences in isolated

events that they have experienced; such as "I got a headache at

the beach last Sunday, so (my conclusion is) I get headaches at

the beach."

6. Magnification and Minimization.

The emphasis is put on the qualities of other people or events

by exaggerating them to extreme proportions. At the same time,

negative characteristics are minimized or ignored completely.

Uncomfortable situations look like catastrophes to these people;

such as "I got a flat tire, my day is ruined."

7. "Should" Statements.

Self expectations are huge and always self imposed. These people

are not flexible with themselves making their life a stream of

constant stress; for instance "I should have gone to the grocery

store first. I don't have time to go now."

8. Emotional Reasoning.

These individuals let their emotions interfere when making

decisions or getting to conclusions, without allowing themselves

to be reasonable. By becoming emotional they tend to distort

the facts. They end up feeling powerless; they believe unfair

situations "happen" to them. Their emotions won't let them see

events objectively; such as "You made me cry, so you are mean

to me."

9. Personalization.

People who personalize tend to blame either themselves or others

about the events that happen in their lives. When the blame is

self imposed it creates a lot of stress. These individuals are not

objective either; such as "I'm not good enough for you, that is why

you left me."

10. Labeling.

These people are always placing labels on others or on themselves.

These labels are usually inaccurate and have a negative slant to

them; for instance "I'm so stupid" or "She's so pretentious." These

labels are seeing as absolutes. Other qualities or other aspects of

ourselves or of others are ignored. We are all multi-dimensional

beings with both, qualities and defects. Placing labels don't let

us see this.

Often times, this negative thought and cognitive distortion

patterns begin in childhood and can go unnoticed for years. They

become part of who we are quite by habit. This is why becoming

aware is so important. Do you notice any of these distortions

in your internal dialogue?

Becoming aware of our thoughts and behaviors is the first step to

move beyond them and grow. The scientific process to get rid of

these is called "Cognitive Restructuring" and the rewards are not

only empowering but permanent.

Come back tomorrow for the 2nd part of this 2 part series....